Barbie is an utter contradiction, explains Shelley Brody, 81, a longtime professor who has dual master’s degrees in psychology and women’s studies. “Barbie embodies positive feminist messages,” Brody explains of this independent woman who never marries or has children, and lives by herself in a literal dream house. “Yet she has no genitals. She doesn’t even know what genitals or sex are!”
Of course, few of us real-life women get through life without acknowledging our genitals, sex, choices and childbirth. One of Barbie’s biggest accomplishments is that she gets us to examine the real-life choices women do, and don’t, have — in our professions, our bodies, our lives. Her beauty, perpetual smile, unchanging curves and multiple careers bring up society's unrealistic expectations of women. However, Barbie is about sparking our imagination of what we can be — if we all lived in our own BarbieLand.
Late in the movie, Margot Robbie declares, “I love women.” This is the epitome of Barbie’s lasting appeal. Put aside her enviable waistline, imperviousness to wrinkles and mascara that never smears. Barbie’s secret is her prototypical, and genuine, eagerness to please. If Barbie knew how badly she often makes us feel about ourselves, she’d be mortified. She’d apologize sweetly. She’d tell us how beautiful and valuable and wonderful we all are. She’d mean every word.
As I left the theater, planning to buy a pair of pink Birkenstocks to match Barbie’s, I felt good about being an older woman. I felt connected to other women, in all our imperfections. That togetherness is the heart of feminism, of the #MeToo movement, part of every march for women’s rights, and the lasting triumph of all things Barbie. We’ll know Barbie’s true power when Mattel comes out with the most inspirational doll of all — Grandma Barbie, paving the way for empowered grandchildren everywhere.
*At roughly the same time Ruth Handler created Barbie, retired California teacher Ethel Percy Andrus incorporated the American Association of Retired Persons, with membership set at $2 a year as of July 1, 1958. You are reading this article in the e-newsletter honoring the original Ethel.
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