Activities for October 5-11
This week’s theme is Random Acts of Kindness, and we’ve created a set of activities to help you discover new ways to strengthen social connections. Just consider the research. Time and again, unexpected gestures of goodwill have been linked with lower levels of stress and anxiety. And the best part? Kindness is also contagious.
Feel free to try as many of this week’s activities as you’d like—whether that’s all of them or just one. The goal is progress, not perfection, and every step you take matters.
Tip: Compliment something in their control, like an outfit, an accomplishment or their energy. Research shows that we actually underestimate how much compliments mean to the receiver.
Tip: Focus on who they are, not just what they do for you. For example, “I admire how you can always see the good in people,” vs. “I appreciate that you always validate me.” It’s not about expecting a response back, but about you taking action to create little positive moments of interaction (even if it’s one-way).
Tip: Start with “I was thinking of you," mention your last interaction and end with a warm wish. It’s about creating a thoughtful moment, not expecting a reply.
Tip: If you’re not into online reviews, tell the staff in person. It’s often just as impactful.
Tip: Keep it casual—tea, lemonade, or a simple snack is enough. The goal is time together, not entertaining.
Tip: Thoughtful comments feel more genuine. Keep it specific and uplifting. Instead of saying, "Nice!" try "I love how creative this is" or "This brightened my day."
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